Wednesday, 6 December 2017

He's making a list, he's checking it twice..

Yesterday, still full of cold and sniffling my way around, I cancelled my gym plans (and am regretting it, but I had to accept that I was too ill to train) and had an evening at home (rare) and to myself (even rarer still).

This is great I started off thinking to myself. But when I got home, for the first time in a few days and remembered the pile of ironing, the mountain of presents which need wrapping, cards which need writing and projects which need finishing, I was almost ready to hibernate. Or cry. Or both.

Whilst I've been trying to make a conscious effort to take less on, I'm still finding I'm probably trying to do too much. I tend to say yes, assume I'll fit it all in and then forgo things like sleep / stuff I actually want to do in order to meet all of the deadlines. And, usually, that's OK. But it's worse when you're feeling a little under the weather and it's not clear where to start.

I find that making a list, before I start anything, can really help me. So, I popped the kettle on, found a pen and sat down to write my plan of action. Small tasks, some of which would only take a few minutes (change bedding, mix up mine pie pastry, etc) went on the lists along with harder ones (list clothes for sale, finish making a present for my sister) and I went through them one at a time.

Despite knowing that I wouldn't get them all crossed off (I didn't), it somehow made me feel calmer to know that I could do one thing at a time, avoid goldfishing (which is what my OH calls that thing I do when I'm flicking between a million things at once and never actually completing any of them), and feel a little sense of achievement when I crossed something off.

Sometimes, it's OK to take things slow. I just have to keep reminding myself of this.

1 comment:

  1. I feel ya on the Taking it Slow. My husband really makes me feel bad any time I have a day or weekend of not doing much and I just want to say, "No! I need to!"

    Sorry you're ill. It's always hard at this time of year with deadlines looming. I've got so many rehearsals and events on at the moment and now going to probably have to try and squeeze in packing up my house in a week!!! X